Keeping order and sanity during “lockdown”, and I use that world literally, was a mammoth task. School classes had switched to online and we purchased additional laptops to allow some continuity as the Bekind
Boys attend four different schools.
My heart lifted to see the children back in their uniforms and off to school the day after I had arrived.
The uniform is worn with a great sense of pride by each child, visually an equaliser of class, caste, and creed. The English medium schooling also equips the students with additional options as they progress through the system of education. English, the international language that can open many doors for the young minds that embrace it.
April in India is hot! Temperatures in excess of 40C were the norm during my stay so pacing oneself is important with lots of hydration a necessity. The cycle aspect of this newsletter resonates with me as I remember the excitement of getting my first racing bike as a ten-year-old from my dad for my birthday. He brought me into Rutland Cycles in Dublin’s city centre and we picked out a gold and black coloured 5 speed bike that cost 35 pounds in 1969. How I treasured it for many years going to school and for leisure use. And in turn, my own children got their freedom and learned the skills of balance. A skill once learnt is never forgotten.
An old Triumph 20 cycle, now an ornament/plant stand, rusting in peace in our back garden ,once carried my tiny daughter on many journeys – a constant reminder of years gone by. The cycle of life has brought her to the marriage this year to the love of her life.
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Old Triumph 20 Cycle (with Fred)
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Back to this year’s cycles with requests from some of our now teenage Bekind Boys who needed transport to get to school. It was off to Sri Ram Krishna Stores in east Kolkata for a triple deal. The poor shopkeeper was nearly in tears as we squeezed every last Rupee out of the deal, including a stand, a carrier and a lock for each bike for an all-in discounted price of under €190 for the three quality Tata cycles!
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Owner Sri Ram Krishna Stores
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Now to deliver the said cycles in the 40C heat was our next task. Each recipient with a different background, different location, different circumstances, and differing stories.
Cycle 1
First, Joydeep and I headed north west for a two-and-a-half-hour journey in the direction of Burdwan passing the impressive administration building where the Honourable Chief Minister for the state of West Bengal, Mamata Banerjee presides. She is a formidable lady holding strong with her Trinamool Congress Party which she established in 1998. It is impossible to travel anywhere in Bengal without seeing her image on billboards and posters. I imagine the marketing budget must be considerable.
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Trinamool Congress Party
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Cycle 2
Rohit had been in Bekind since he was six years of age. On several occasions I had met his mother who always showed great affection for the child. She was a beautiful young lady and unfortunately due to poverty and an abusive broken marriage had reluctantly placed her son and an older daughter into care.
Cycle 3
Another boy, Sanjay, who grew up in Bekind from a young age, had been restored to his family in the Howrah District. His mother had remarried and up to the pandemic her husband had been employed in a manufacturing position at a local factory. Unfortunately, like many businesses, it was forced to cease trading during that time when everything ground to a halt. His step-father is doing his best now going from place-to-place selling tea from a container on his own bicycle.
October/November 2022
In late October, my wife, son, and I returned to Kolkata with our first adult volunteer group. Some were to experience a first visit to India; others were returning now as young adults having previously been part of our school-going teenage immersion groups in previous years.
The summer/autumn months had been busy with many fundraising events, and the proceeds, for which we are so grateful, have really made a difference in meeting our budget. Each adult covered their flight, accommodation, and expenses. Arriving to more comfortable temperatures, we were blessed with clear blue skies and around 30 degrees of heat by day. A familiarisation of the city on day one and the now obligatory walk across the huge cantilever Howrah Bridge and a visit the train station of the same name which caters for over one million passengers daily, making it the biggest in all India!
They were all so excited and everyone enjoyed the next couple of days together in a small resort outside Kolkata that we have used to treat the children on several occasions over the years. Cricket, football, swimming, boating, ziplining, target-shooting and having good food and lots of fun were compulsory.
Our adult group were to visit several of the Hope Foundation homes and projects and were so impressed at the scale and reach of this wonderful organisation. Our visit coincided with that of the lovely Rachel Duffy, International Rose of Tralee, who was spending a week in Kolkata with Hope.
Three of our girls recognised a boy, Suraj, who had spent five years in
Bekind
Boys’ Home and another five in another Hope run home. They informed me that he was back living on the streets with his parents and four-year-old sister. I was shocked to hear this and had been under the impression that his family had a rented room to live in before he returned to them earlier this year.
And yes, it was true as I was to witness a few days later, after most of our group had returned to Ireland. Margaret or “Maggie Auntie” as the children affectionately refer to her, was staying on for several weeks in India and we joined the Night Round team visiting families by the ghats where a festival was taking place. The area seemed transformed from deprivation to dedication in worshiping the Hindu gods, with hundreds of little oil lamps stretching along the banks of the Hoogly, creating a magical atmosphere with many thousands enjoying the party. Bell ringers in temples clanged as the faithful bowed in worship and reverence. The fires from the ghats burning the deceased, relentless flames releasing souls on their journey, on their next cycle of another life.
Amidst the many families living on the footpaths on one of the main avenues was my boy Suraj, his beaming smile welcoming us to his family “place” on the street, his bed was a sheet of plywood atop a tricycle cart next to where his parents and little sister slept in a canvas covered dwelling. I could not help but feel the past decade of shelter and education by Bekind and Hope had just been lost and that this boy, on the eve of his sixteenth birthday, was in danger of being consumed by what surrounded him. I knew from messages he’d sent me from his father’s mobile that he was not safe and referred to alcohol and drug abuse which was common place in that area.
Riya
Another little girl, Riya, has Cerebral Palsy and lives in a rural area an hour outside Kolkata. She has had an Irish sponsor for over ten years. Anne, Riya’s sponsor and a member of our group, was to get to meet her but I had kept it a surprise until the final day before she returned home to Dublin. We visited Sanchar, an outreach group we have supported over the years, and made our way to the village where Riya lives. The bus could only go so far so we walked for about twenty minutes until we reached the village. Anne admitted she was giddy with the excitement of meeting the child. With only a few metres to go, Anne took a tumble and fell. The thud of her head hitting the concrete path sent shivers up my spine and lifting her up, hoping she had not broken her teeth or nose, was one of those moments I don’t want to re-live. Thankfully nothing broken but two big bumps were appearing on her bloodied forehead. Scuffed knees and a badly cut finger didn’t deter our Anne as she sat on a plastic chair with half the village around her. She kept repeating “I’m ok. I’m ok”, as the colour drained from her face and my wife and I wondered how we were going to get her back from the middle of nowhere.
Raj
Thank you for supporting these precious children.
Brian
Brian Flanagan
Founder Director
Bekind
Ireland